Ukukhempa kuyinto ehluke kakhulu kubantu abahlukene. Thatha, isibonelo, izinhlobo ezimbili eziyinhloko ekuhlolweni kobuntu be-MBTI: "e people" (extroverts) kanye "ne people" (introverts) abonisa ubuso obuhluke kakhulu lapho ukhempa.
e Ukukhempa kwabantu: Idili lomphakathi
Kubantu be-e, akuyona into emfushane yedili lomphakathi. Bazimisele ukumema abangani nomndeni ukuthi babajoyine futhi bajabulele ukuchitha isikhathi bengaphandle nemvelo nabantu.
e Abantu bahlale bezimisele ukuxhumana nabanye futhi babelane ngobumnandi babo nolwazi lwabo ngesikhathi sokumisaamatendenokubasa imililo ukupheka. Ama-campfire ayizintandokazi zabo.
e Abantu bazohlela ngenkuthalo imidlalo ehlukahlukene nemisebenzi ukwenza umoya ufudumale futhi ujabule. Ukuhleka nokujabula kwabo, njengomculo omnandi kakhulu emvelweni, kwenza yonke indawo yokukhempa igcwale ubungqabavu nobungqabavu.
Ukukhempa yedwa: Ukuthula kokuba wedwa
Ngokuphambene, i abantu maningi amathuba okuba bathole ukuthula nokuba sodwa ekamu. Bangase bakhethe ukuhamba bodwa noma nabangane abambalwa abaseduze ukuze bajabulele isikhathi esithile esithulile kude nesiphithiphithi.
Lapho bemisa amatende, abantu banake kakhulu ukuxhumana okuseduze nemvelo, bathanda ukuhlala ngokuthula phambi kwetende, belalele umoya, izinyoni kanye nomsindo wamanzi, bezwa umoya wemvelo.
Lapho bebodwa, abantu bayakwazi ukucabanga bajule kakhulu futhi babe nengxoxo nezinhliziyo zabo, ngaleyo ndlela bathole ukuthula kwangaphakathi nokwaneliseka. Kubantu bami, ukukhempa akuwona nje umsebenzi wangaphandle, kodwa futhi ubhapathizo olungokomoya nokuphumula.
Bobabili "abantu baka-e" bathola injabulo yomphakathi kanye nokwaneliseka ekukhempini, kuyilapho "i-i people" bethola ukuthula nokuba bodwa ekukhempini. Kunoma ikuphi, ukukhempa kungabalethela ulwazi nemizwa ehlukile, futhi kuwuthando nokuphishekela ukuphila.
I-"e people" kanye "ne-i people" izophinde ibe nemizwa ehlukene lapho ikhetha i-Areffa, imishini yokukhempa yomkhiqizo womugqa owodwa kanye nolwazi lokukhempa.
e imizwa yabantu:
Kubantu, ukukhethaImishini yangaphandle ye-Areffa yokukhempangokungangabazeki ihlanganisa nomphakathi. Bazokhangwa izinga eliphezulu lika-Areffa, ubungcweti nedizayini yemfashini, becabanga ukuthi la madivayisi angabonisa ukunambitheka kwawo nesitayela.
Phakathi nenqubo yokukhempa, abantu be-e bazokujabulela ukubonisa abangani babo izinto ezihlukahlukene zika-Areffa, njengamatende angasindi futhi ahlala isikhathi eside, ojosaka abasebenza ngokugcwele, nezitsha zokupheka zangaphandle eziphumelelayo nezilula.
Bajabulela ukuba yisizinda sokunakwa endaweni yokukhempa, ukwabelana ngokunethezeka nobumnandi bokusebenzisa igiya le-Areffa nabangane babo.
Ngesikhathi esifanayo, abantu be-e bazophinde babambe iqhaza ngokukhuthele emisebenzini ehlukahlukene yokukhempa noma imibuthano yomphakathi, bashintshisane ngemibono nabantu abanomqondo ofanayo, futhi bandise umbuthano womphakathi.
imizwa yabantu:
Kubantu bami, ukukhetha kwemishini yangaphandle ye-Areffa kusekelwe kakhulu ekuqashelweni kwekhwalithi nokusebenza. Angeke bakhathazeke ngokuqwashisa ngomkhiqizo noma imiphumela yomphakathi, kodwa bazofunda ngokucophelela yonke imininingwane yemikhiqizo ye-Areffa ukuze baqinisekise ukuthi bangakwazi ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zabo zangempela.
Lapho bakanisa, abantu bathambekele kakhulu ekujabuleleni ukuthula nobuhle bemvelo bebodwa noma nabangane abambalwa abaseduze. Bazosebenzisa ngokugcwele izici zobungcweti zemishini ye-Areffa, njengamatafula okugoqa asebenzayo, izihlalo zokugqoka ezinoboya ezilungele ukuhlala nokulala, imibhede yekamu enethezekile, njll., ukuqinisekisa ukunethezeka nokuphepha kwekamu.
Kubantu bami, i-Areffa ayilona nje uphawu, kodwa futhi iwukuphishekela nokuzibophezela empilweni yangaphandle yekhwalithi ephezulu. Lapho bebodwa noma benabangane abaseduze, bangakwazi ukuzwa ukukhanga kwemvelo ngokujulile futhi bajabulele ukuthula kwangaphakathi nokwaneliseka.
"e Abantu "kanye" nabantu bami" banemizwa ehlukene lapho bekhetha imishini yokukhempa yase-Areffa futhi bezwa ukukhempa. "e people" bagxile kakhulu ebumnandini bokuxhumana nokwabelana, kuyilapho "i people" begxile kakhulu kukhwalithi nolwazi lwangaphakathi. Kodwa noma iyiphi indlela, uthando nokuphishekelaUmkhiqizo we-Areffa nempilo yangaphandle yokukhempa.
Isikhathi sokuthumela: Aug-13-2024
