Ukukhempa kuyinto ehluke kakhulu kubantu abahlukene. Isibonelo, cabanga ngezinhlobo ezimbili eziyinhloko ekuhlolweni kobuntu be-MBTI: "abantu be-e" (abathanda ukuzijabulisa) kanye "nabantu be-i" (abathanda ukuzijabulisa) babonisa ubuso obuhlukile kakhulu lapho bekhempa.
Abantu bayakhempa: Idili lokuzijabulisa
Kubantu, kuyinto emnandi njengedili lokuzijabulisa. Bazimisele ukumema abangani nomndeni ukuthi bahlanganyele nabo futhi bajabulele ukuchitha isikhathi ngaphandle nemvelo nabantu.
Abantu bahlala bezimisele ukuxhumana nabanye futhi babelane ngokuzijabulisa kwabo kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo enkambisweni yokusungula.amatendekanye nokubasa imililo yokupheka. Imililo yasekamu yiyo abayithandayo.
Abantu bazohlela ngenkuthalo imidlalo ehlukahlukene kanye nemisebenzi ukuze benze isimo sibe sifudumele futhi sijabule. Ukuhleka kwabo kanye nokujabula, njengomculo omuhle kakhulu emvelweni, kwenza yonke indawo yokukhempa igcwale amandla kanye namandla.
Ukukhempa wedwa: Ukuthula kokuba wedwa
Ngokuphambene nalokho, abantu banamathuba amaningi okuthola ukuthula nokuba bodwa lapho bekhempa. Bangase bakhethe ukuhamba bodwa noma nabangane abambalwa abaseduze ukuze bajabulele isikhathi sokuthula bengekho endaweni ephithizelayo.
Lapho bekhempini, abantu banaka kakhulu ukuxhumana okuseduze nemvelo, bathanda ukuhlala buthule phambi kwetende, belalele umoya, izinyoni kanye nomsindo wamanzi, bezwe umoya wemvelo.
Uma bebodwa, abantu bayakwazi ukucabanga ngokujulile futhi babe nengxoxo nezinhliziyo zabo, ngaleyo ndlela bathole ukuthula kwangaphakathi nokwaneliseka. Kubantu, ukukhempa akuyona nje into eyenziwa ngaphandle, kodwa futhi kuyindlela yokubhapathizwa ngokomoya nokuphumula.
Bobabili "abantu be-e" bathola injabulo nokwaneliseka emphakathini lapho bekhempa, kuyilapho "abantu be-i" bethola ukuthula nokuzihlukanisa lapho bekhempa. Noma ngabe yikuphi, ukukhempa kungabalethela okuhlangenwe nakho nemizwa eyingqayizivele, futhi kuwuthando nokuphishekela impilo.
"abantu be-e" kanye "nabantu be-i" nabo bazoba nemizwa ehlukene lapho bekhetha i-Areffa, uhlobo olulodwa lwemishini yokukhempa kanye nolwazi lokukhempa.
imizwa yabantu:
Kubantu be-e, ukukhethaImishini yangaphandle yase-Areffa yokukhempangokungangabazeki kuyinzuzo yomphakathi. Bazokhangwa yikhwalithi ephezulu ye-Areffa, ubungcweti kanye nomklamo wemfashini, becabanga ukuthi la madivayisi angabonisa ukunambitheka kwawo kanye nesitayela sawo.
Ngesikhathi senqubo yokukhempa, abantu bazokujabulela ukukhombisa abangane babo imishini ehlukahlukene yase-Areffa, njengamatende alula futhi aqinile, izikhwama zangemuva ezisebenza ngokugcwele, kanye nezitsha zokupheka zangaphandle ezisebenza kahle futhi ezilula.
Bayakujabulela ukuba yisikhungo sokunaka endaweni yokukhempa, behlanganyela ubulula kanye nobumnandi bokusebenzisa izinto ze-Areffa nabangani babo.
Ngesikhathi esifanayo, abantu bazohlanganyela ngenkuthalo emisebenzini eyahlukene yokukhempa noma emibuthanweni yomphakathi, bashintshisane ngemibono nabantu abanomqondo ofanayo, futhi bandise umbuthano wokuxhumana nabantu.
imizwa yabantu:
Kubantu, ukukhetha imishini yangaphandle ye-Areffa kusekelwe kakhulu ekuqaphelweni kwekhwalithi nokusebenza. Bangase bangazinaki kakhulu ulwazi lomkhiqizo noma imiphumela yomphakathi, kodwa bazofunda ngokucophelela yonke imininingwane yemikhiqizo ye-Areffa ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ingakwazi ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zayo zangempela.
Lapho bekhempa, abantu bathambekele kakhulu ekujabuleleni ukuthula nobuhle bemvelo bodwa noma nabangane abambalwa abaseduze. Bazosebenzisa ngokugcwele izici zobungcweti zemishini ye-Areffa, njengamatafula asongwayo asebenzayo, izihlalo zokuvala uboya ezilula zokuhlala nokulala phansi, imibhede yekamu ekhululekile, njll., ukuqinisekisa induduzo nokuphepha kokukhempa.
Kubantu bami, i-Areffa akuyona nje uphawu, kodwa futhi iwukuphishekela nokuzibophezela empilweni yangaphandle esezingeni eliphezulu. Uma bebodwa noma benabangane abaseduze, bangazizwa bethandeka kakhulu futhi bajabulele ukuthula kwangaphakathi nokwaneliseka.
"Abantu" kanye "nabantu" banemizwa ehlukene lapho bekhetha imishini yokukhempa e-Areffa futhi bezwa ukukhempa. "abantu" bagxile kakhulu enjabulweni yokuxhumana nokwabelana, kuyilapho "abantu" begxile kakhulu ekhwalithini kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwangaphakathi. Kodwa noma ngabe yikuphi, uthando nokuphishekelaUhlobo lwe-Areffa kanye nokuphila ngaphandle kokukhempa.
Isikhathi sokuthunyelwe: Agasti-13-2024
